Hi,
Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.
Cool huh?...
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from people just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together. So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"
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BUT... WARNING!
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In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.
http://theta1997.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/
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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works. and worse... Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position. These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY- "Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this." Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches? So, I won't go on and on...
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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are *Curiosity & *Self Interest. And here's the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic' So... Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person." Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now...
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible. But more importantly...
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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
http://theta1997.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly. Okay? What I am saying is... What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Make sense?
Have a PLAN!==>
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Rooting For You,
T Dub